The first couple of years of this job can be brutal as you deal with germs, stress, a fluctuating sleep schedule and a diet consisting of airplane food.  It’s easy to forget to take care of yourself, even senior FAs struggle with this. “Putting on your oxygen mask first” helps you enjoy the job more, be better at it and get the most out of your time off. These are some of the things that I have found really make a difference in my health and happiness.

 Unplug

Take a break from social media  for an hour, a day or longer. Most of us use Facebook, Twitter, Instagram to keep up on company news, gossip, trip trading and friends’ travels but with the good comes the bad. Online bickering and travel-envy can ruin a good day. Take a step back every once and a while.

 Stop Reading the Comments

Every airline has customers who take every opportunity to bash them, particularly online. Don’t let those trolls’ special brand of vile affect you. You can’t control what they say but you can control what you hear. When I come across these comments, I try to remember that they aren’t about me personally.

Sleep When and Where You Can

Our sleep schedules don’t always match up with the rest of the world. Sometimes it isn’t worth pushing through exhaustion to accomplish all your errands, meet up with friends or catch that flight to Thailand. It’s ok to forgo plans to get some sleep. I always carry ear plugs and an eye mask so I can catch a nap when the opportunity arises.

Take a Multivitamin

Managing a healthy diet while flying can be tricky. I help my body get the nutrients it needs with a daily multivitamin. I keep mine in my toiletry kit, next to my toothbrush, so I remember to take it first thing in the morning.

Put Down the Airplane Food

Oh, it is so tempting but pigging out on the greasy, salt-laden snack is a bad idea. It may taste good in the moment but your bloated, drowsy self will regret it later. Trust me on this. Grab a fresh salad during your ground time or bring healthy snacks with you. I pack lean protein, like chicken, and some vegetables to heat up on the plane.

Drink Up

If you have flown for more than a day, you have probably met a senior mama who extolled the virtues of proper hydration. Listen to that mama! Water is essential for health blah, blah, blah. You know this. When you are exhausted and reaching for another soda or cup of coffee, try some water instead. That drowsy feeling may very well be caused by dehydration. I use chia seeds and fresh fruit to make boring old water a little more interesting.

Simplify

Set up autopay for your bills. Create a duplicate toiletry kit that lives in your suitcase. Have “standard layover clothes”. Order groceries online and have them delivered. I am so grateful for the time and energy savers when life gets hectic.

Know What You Can Change & Accept What You Can’t

At some point you are going to have to deal with an asinine company policy or unpleasant coworker. When I encounter either, I first step back and try to understand. What is it that the policy makers are trying to accomplish? Why might my coworker be in such a bad mood? If there is an opportunity to change the situation in a calm and professional way, I’ll try that. I provide feedback on the procedure or approach my coworker. Sometimes though, it is out of my control. Rather than dwell and let it bother me, I move on. I remind myself that I love the fact that I am not paid to worry about finding the best policies, I am paid to execute them as best I can. If it doesn’t work, isn’t my failure. One of my other favorite things is being able to walk off the plane and away from difficult coworkers knowing I may not ever fly with them again.

I have been thinking a lot about you lately. It’s hard being new but it is particularly hard to be a flight attendant right now. Nearly every day I read about some airline’s perceived misstep. You’re no doubt feeling it on the line too.  We are photographed and recorded constantly these days as people hope to capture a moment they can cash in for an easy payday or at least 15 minutes of fame.  I find myself hesitating in every interaction with passengers, trying to scan through all the different ways my words and actions could potentially be used against me.

It sucks but I promise you, this too shall pass.

When I started my career as flight attendant it was a very similar atmosphere. My airline made a passenger unhappy‑ I honestly don’t even remember why‑ and it went viral. Just weeks out of training, I was bombarded with news stories on how awful my new airline family was. I scrolled through friends’ Facebook posts about the awful experience they had one time many years ago and how they will never fly my airline again. Random social media trolls called for heads to roll. Sound familiar?

Man Dragged Off United Airlines Flight

I remember feeling a sinking sense of despair as I read the comments. What the f**k did I just get myself into? Did I truly just quit my job and move to a new city so I could work for some flying devil corporation? Should I quit? Deny being a part of such a horrible company? My personal experiences didn’t match what I was reading. No, my company wasn’t perfect but it was no more dysfunctional than any other company I have worked for. Those other companies just weren’t as public facing as airlines.  For the most part, my coworkers were kind, caring individuals who genuinely liked helping their passengers. Was I missing something?

I decided to stop torturing myself by reading the garbage and instead focus on my own experiences. I stopped reading the comments Flight Attendant Accused of Almost Hitting Mother With Strollerand even hid a few Facebook friends that were particularly nasty. I noted the joy my coworkers brought me and delighted in the fun we had together. Rather than focusing on the few passengers that were intent on starting drama, I focused on the kind ones — the ones that smile and say please and ask how I am doing. They help a little old lady put her bag up or hold a baby for an exhausted mother traveling alone. When you start noticing them you realize they outnumber the rude ones. When I had a prickly passenger, who came onboard already convinced that we were going to abuse them, I looked for ways to flip that idea and exceed their rock bottom expectations. Eventually, the media hype died down and people began to like us. It will happen again, just be patient.

I’m not saying the airlines and our fellow coworkers are always perfect or that things don’t need to change. Our job isn’t always easy and yes, sometimes we epically mess up. If you haven’t already, you will develop a thick skin. You will learn to accept that often times passengers act out with us in response to things that have absolutely nothing to do with us. You will learn to shut out the noise and stay focused on the day to day. When someone wants to create drama and really gets under your skin, you will repeat “I get paid to sip cocktails on a beach” over and over and over. As I said earlier, this too shall pass.

Just hang in there. You are doing a great job.

XO,

Sky

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XO,

Sky

I squeal with delight as I read my schedule for the month—London! My first international flight and I get jolly old London. Better yet, I would be flying with one of my favorite stews. Ok, so I had been there before, a few times in fact, but this time would be different. I was actually grateful that I had already crossed all the obligatory sites off my list and could dig a little deeper into the city.

But first, caffeine.

Coming in on the red eye means one thing-coffee! Lucky for me there was a Marks and Spencer just steps from the tube station exit. At the bottom of the massive department store chain lives the food hall. We swung in for a giant coffee, sausage rolls and snacks to take on the road. If we didn’t have lunch plans I would have load up my purse with their pre-made sandwiches. I’ll go ahead and pat my own back for showing some restraint.

Pro Tip: When coming in on a red eye flight, experiment with a sleep schedule that works for you. Personally, I take a 4-hour power nap before going exploring. Waking up is like an episode of The Walking Dead but ultimately worth it. I usually set a wake-up call just to make sure I get up. I find I am more functional and have more energy to see the sights. Some people prefer to go out right away and plan for an early night. Find what works for you.

Pinky’s Up, Dahling

Why is tea time not a bigger deal in the US? Popularized in the early Tea Treatsnineteenth century by the 7th Duchess of Bedford, it started as a light snack to combat the afternoon slump but quickly became a lovely excuse to recharge and catch up with friends. For us, it was a lovely excuse to take a break after wandering around Hyde Park for hours.

Tea at The Orangery  at Kensington Palace is about as quintessential London as it gets. Plus, how posh is it having tea in the palace garden?!?

I suggest dressing a little nicer than your typical tourist. We spent the day wondering around town so we were rocking a casual chic vibe. The staff is far too polite make you feel unwelcome but the dishes alone really deserve more than torn jeans and tennis shoes.

Bond, James Bond

1948 Rolls-Royce Wraith from SPECTRE

When you live life at 500mph, you appreciate fast cars.  There is no sexier collection then Bond in Motion at the London Film Museum. We walked into the fashionable lobby in Convent Gardens and were greeted by the pulsing sounds of the 007 theme song. The next hour or so my crew wandered around the museum in near silence as we admired the actual sports cars, as well as some of the tricked out creations, we had only ever seen on screen.

High Chai

Having done the traditional Afternoon Tea, we decided to mix it up a bit with High Chai at Cinnamon Soho. London has a strong Indian influence and I was intrigued by this melding of cultures. The Indian Masala Chai was heavenly and bite-sized goodies were spicy and delicious. The cinnamon bellini was an add on and worth every penny.

Give Me Liberty

Most stews head over to the iconic Herrods to wonder the massive department store and pick up a liberty scarvessignature pouch I fell madly, deeply in love with Liberty. The store maintains an intimate, distinct personality despite floors and floors of stunning goods. I moved from room to room, swooning over fresh off the runway creations before I made my way to the accessories department. The store’s early history of selling Japanese and Eastern goods and being instrumental in developing the Art Nouveau style comes through in their artful custom fabrics.

Pro Tip: On the top floor, next to the Haberdashery department are bins of Liberty-branded handkerchiefs and dinner napkins (which also work as scarves) that make excellent gifts.

lhr-bacon-and-egg-martiniBacon and Egg Martini Anyone?

A long day requires a cocktail, no? I was intrigued by London Cocktail Club creative cocktail offerings. From the outside the place looked a little dodgier than expected but that is part of the charm.  We managed to come on 2-for-1 night and the place was absolutely packed. Cheers to Bacon and Egg martinis and Brixton Riots complete with flaming passion fruit husk.

 The Slam-Clicker Layover

For those times when you just want to stay in, watch Secret Diary of Call on Netflix while eating curry from room service.

Figuring out what to pack for a week-long trip is hard enough, trying to make it fit in a carry-on is even harder. Trust me when I say that with experience and more than a few tricks, it is absolutely possible.

running shoes in showercap
Protect from sole funk.

Shower caps are for shoes. Protect your belongings from sole-funk by wrapping them in an inexpensive shower cap. Unlike storing them in a bag, shower caps let the insoles breath so your shoes won’t smell like death after a particularly hard day. You can stockpile the free ones from your hotel room but I prefer spending a couple of bucks for cute ones that last longer.

potholder…And oven mitts are for styling tools. Our sleep time is precious.  I may wake up early to curl or straighten my hair but waiting for the iron to cool feels like an eternity.  If you’re real fancy you can sew the ends of the
mitt together but wrapping a thick hair band around it works just as well.

small oil bottle
Perfect for makeup remover.

Use the smallest container for your needs. Nothing drives me crazy like carting around a bottle of eye makeup remover that is 90% empty. Lucky for me, the essential oil craze has made the tiny oil-friendly containers easily accessible. I can carry around what I need and refill as necessary.  If you’re flying international, pre-soaked makeup removing wipes are a great way to get around the liquid restriction challenge.

Roll everything. Sometimes called “ranger rolling” this reduces fluff factor and maximizes space. Just be careful, it will become second nature and you will find yourself rolling everything.

Be honest with yourself. Are you really going to wear 4 different outfits on your 4-day trip? Or are you really going to wear the same jeans and t-shirt and hope no one notices? No judgment, I’m probably doing the same thing. Accessories can work magic at transforming the basics.

Accessorize, accessorize, accessorize. Scarves, necklaces and other jewelry can transform the basics and are much easier to pack than several different outfits.

platypus
Fill, drink, flatten, repeat.

Be a Platypus. We are obsessed with hydration. If you aren’t, you should be. I like having a “bladder” water container on hand. I can fill, drink and then flatten it.

With the help of these tips, you see that you can, in fact, live comfortably out of a carry-on for weeks at a time.